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At War
Life, Self Love Deena Kay Life, Self Love Deena Kay

At War

Explore a raw and honest journey through internal conflict, love, and setting boundaries in this compelling article. Delve into the struggles, triumphs, and lessons learned from personal experiences, offering insight and understanding into the complexities of human relationships and self-discovery.

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Be naked.
Self Love, Life, Relationships Deena Kay Self Love, Life, Relationships Deena Kay

Be naked.

In a raw and honest reflection, I bare it all - quite literally. These photos aren't just about nudity; they're about embracing authenticity. Join me as I navigate the tumultuous waters of divorce, heartbreak, and self-discovery. It's a journey marked by pain, but also by profound growth and acceptance. Through it all, I've learned to shed the layers of pretense and be unabashedly myself. So, here I am, flaws and all, inviting you to do the same.

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wild and safe.
Self Love, Life, Relationships Deena Kay Self Love, Life, Relationships Deena Kay

wild and safe.

Embracing the wild and untamed aspects of our souls can feel daunting in a world quick to suppress individuality. Yet, beneath the surface of our perceived wildness lies a safe and nurturing home for our truest selves. Join me as I explore the beauty of vulnerability and authenticity, and the transformative power of sharing our souls with others.

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Abandonment Issues
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

Abandonment Issues

In the poignant words of Courtney A. Walsh, we're reminded that our journey isn't about mastering unconditional love, but about embracing our humanity and learning to love ourselves fully. Join me as I reflect on my struggles with abandonment and the journey towards self-acceptance. Through vulnerability and imperfection, I'm learning to embrace all aspects of myself and recognize my inherent worth.

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I’m Not Going to Lie, I’m Tired.
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

I’m Not Going to Lie, I’m Tired.

In moments of introspection, I grapple with the dichotomy of strength and grace. While I pride myself on independence, extending grace means embracing vulnerability and softness. Recently, I've navigated the complexities of forgiveness and love, learning to offer grace even in the face of hurt. Join me in reflecting on the fragility of the heart and the resilience found in embracing imperfection and forgiveness.

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God Has to Slap Me in the Fucking Face.
Family, Life Deena Kay Family, Life Deena Kay

God Has to Slap Me in the Fucking Face.

Amidst recent hardships, I cherish the opportunity to spend a day with my daughters, despite financial constraints. Reflecting on the beauty found in suffering, I'm reminded of the importance of making memories and creating a nurturing home for my girls. Join me as I embrace the challenges of motherhood and look forward to the journey ahead with hope and gratitude.

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Evidently, there’s a speck in my eye.
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

Evidently, there’s a speck in my eye.

In a world quick to criticize and label, have you ever stopped to consider the impact of your words on someone's life? Reflecting on the wisdom of Jesus's words, delve into the complexities of character assessment and the power of self-awareness. Join me in exploring the journey towards embracing imperfection, extending grace, and redefining our understanding of love in the face of criticism and judgment.

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Still Hopeful.
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

Still Hopeful.

Ever felt like everything you hold dear is suspended in mid-air, just out of reach? That feeling of uncertainty can be overwhelming, leaving us in a state of waiting. In this poignant reflection, explore the experience of navigating life's uncertainties and finding hope in the midst of it all. Drawing inspiration from 2 Corinthians 4:8-9, discover the resilience to endure, even when everything feels up in the air.

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When I Was Eight
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

When I Was Eight

From childhood dreams to professional reality, my journey as a Worship Pastor took unexpected turns. But amidst the glitz and glamour of my dream church, I found myself lost and disillusioned. In this candid reflection, I share the raw truth of my struggles within the confines of ministry, and the transformative power of embracing my humanity. Join me as I navigate the complexities of faith, authenticity, and self-discovery, ultimately finding a deeper connection to God through vulnerability and imperfection.

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Only Strong Women in this House.
Self Love, Family, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Family, Life Deena Kay

Only Strong Women in this House.

"We are strong women in this house." These words echo through the walls after moments of turmoil, tears, or sibling rivalry. As a mother, I strive to instill in my daughters a sense of inner strength that empowers them to navigate life's challenges with resilience and determination. In this heartfelt reflection, discover why fostering strength and resilience in our girls is essential for shaping their futures and empowering them to overcome obstacles with courage.

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Fill in the Blank.
Life, Self Love Deena Kay Life, Self Love Deena Kay

Fill in the Blank.

How often do you hear the whisper, "You aren’t [blank] enough," echoing in your mind? It’s a common inner dialogue many of us face. But here's the truth: who you aren’t isn’t relevant to your journey. Comparing yourself to others steals your energy and detracts from your own path. In this empowering piece, learn why embracing your uniqueness and focusing on your purpose is the key to fulfillment and success.

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Productivity Isn’t Success.
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

Productivity Isn’t Success.

Feeling burnt out and overwhelmed? It's time to step off the anxious roller coaster and prioritize your peace. In this heartfelt reflection, discover the importance of taking a step back from people-pleasing and embracing rest. Join me as I share my journey towards reclaiming inner tranquility and why prioritizing peace over productivity is the true key to success.

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My Thoughts For Today.
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

My Thoughts For Today.

In a world fixated on appearances, it's easy to lose sight of the importance of inner beauty. We spend countless hours perfecting our outward image, yet often neglect the condition of our hearts and minds. But what if we shifted our focus? What if we prioritized authenticity over conformity? Embracing authenticity means aligning our actions and intentions with our true selves, rather than conforming to societal standards or chasing superficial ideals. It means investing in qualities like kindness, empathy, and compassion, which radiate from within and leave a lasting impact on those around us. So let's pause, reflect, and reevaluate our priorities. Let's choose to cultivate inner beauty that shines brighter than any cosmetic enhancement or fashionable attire. Let's prioritize authenticity in a world that often values conformity.

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So Will I
Self Love, Life Deena Kay Self Love, Life Deena Kay

So Will I

Explore a poignant personal journey of overcoming doubt, navigating failure, and rediscovering faith. This article delves into the struggle of reconciling identity, pursuing ministry, and ultimately finding redemption through self-acceptance and the unconditional love of a higher power.

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Do You Belong to Yourself?
Self Love, Life, Relationships Deena Kay Self Love, Life, Relationships Deena Kay

Do You Belong to Yourself?

In a society that constantly pushes for conformity, feeling like an outsider can be a heavy burden to bear. Many of us struggle with the innate desire to belong while grappling with the fear of not being accepted for who we truly are. But what if the key to finding belonging isn't in fitting in with others, but rather in embracing our own uniqueness?

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Finding Courage and Hope in Life's Waiting Seasons
Life, Self Love Deena Kay Life, Self Love Deena Kay

Finding Courage and Hope in Life's Waiting Seasons

In life, we often find ourselves in seasons of waiting, where uncertainty looms and plans seem to unravel. Yet, it is in these moments that we can discover profound courage and unwavering hope. Join us as we explore how to navigate the waiting seasons of life and find purpose, fulfillment, and strength along the journey.

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